You Did It For Your Happiness By Brahma Kumari Followers
NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR ANYONE, DO ONLY FOR YOURSELF. SOUNDS SELFISH, BUT HEREIN LIES THE SECRET OF BEING SELFLESS
With relationships often are attached words like sacrifice, compromise, and adjustment. Each word sounds more like suffering rather than happiness. Relationships give us the opportunity to do a lot for others, but we need to check our intention. If we think we are doing it for them, then we could be doing it outwardly but not necessarily be happy inside. If we have negative thoughts of unwillingness or resentment and we do the right action, neither we nor they will be happy because they will receive our vibrations. You Did It For Your Happiness By Brahma Kumari Followers.
We do everything as we do for ourselves, but throughout our lives, we live in the same illusion that what we did for others and we never understand the reality of life.
And then we will feel we did so much for them and they are still not happy.
Before doing anything, introspect - why do I want to do it … because they will be happy …why do I want them to happy…because they matter to me and there will be harmony in the relationship…if there is harmony, I will be happy…so I am doing it for my happiness, not for them.
Actually, we are always doing it for ourselves, but we believe we are doing it for them. We are not making any sacrifices or compromises, we are doing it for our own happiness and this is liberation. We no longer feel like a victim; we are doing everything for our own self; we are responsible for the consequences of the decision and most important we don’t expect them to do anything for us.
Let’s think of all the things we feel we have done for people and yet felt very let down by them…let’s check today, till we finally come to the answer – I was doing it for myself.
With relationships often are attached words like sacrifice, compromise, and adjustment. Each word sounds more like suffering rather than happiness. Relationships give us the opportunity to do a lot for others, but we need to check our intention. If we think we are doing it for them, then we could be doing it outwardly but not necessarily be happy inside. If we have negative thoughts of unwillingness or resentment and we do the right action, neither we nor they will be happy because they will receive our vibrations. You Did It For Your Happiness By Brahma Kumari Followers.
And then we will feel we did so much for them and they are still not happy.
Before doing anything, introspect - why do I want to do it … because they will be happy …why do I want them to happy…because they matter to me and there will be harmony in the relationship…if there is harmony, I will be happy…so I am doing it for my happiness, not for them.
Actually, we are always doing it for ourselves, but we believe we are doing it for them. We are not making any sacrifices or compromises, we are doing it for our own happiness and this is liberation. We no longer feel like a victim; we are doing everything for our own self; we are responsible for the consequences of the decision and most important we don’t expect them to do anything for us.
Let’s think of all the things we feel we have done for people and yet felt very let down by them…let’s check today, till we finally come to the answer – I was doing it for myself.
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